8 Tactics Manipulators Use and How to Stand Your Ground

Manipulators and narcissists are everywhere..

If you can’t spot them, you’ll regret it. Here Are 8 of Their Common Behavior (and how to force them to respect you):

Let’s face it; Manipulators and narcissists are present in each of us daily lives We're all meant to deal with them to a certain degree It’s just a fact.

But.. Letting them get too close to you, can be way too harmful. Read this to avoid that:

1) Rationalization:

Rationalization; Also known as manipulators tendency to make excuses. Let me explain. When confronted about their behavior manipulators tend to "rationalize it"

By that, I mean they tend to give you "a logical explanation" for it, at least in their own eyes.

The solution?

Here, arguing is rarely useful; They’ll just distract you from their actions. Instead, stick with the evidence. Then, ask clearly if they can do the same. If they can’t?

2) Brandishing anger:

Anger can be a surprising tool; Manipulators often use it for 3 reasons: 1. Create distraction from the issue 2. Appear innocent

3. Scare you from opposing them

As its name suggests, by brandishing anger I’m referring to all those "threatening" reactions they can make.

Here, get angry and you’ll fall right into their trap. Instead, simply stand your ground. Do it calmly.. Then, specify clearly you won’t continue like this. Also; Stay logical Angry doesn't mean innocent. (Often the opposite)

3) Guilt-tripping:

Manipulators knows emotions governs our decision-making. That’s why, often when they seek to control you.. "They just play the victim" Why does it work?

Because feel guilty about something, and you’ll likely try to fix it:

Here, first thing is to spot their intentions Be wary of any remark designed to make you feel guilty. If that’s the case? Stay logical. Know they often exaggerate circumstances.

That why, always question the guilt you may feel. If it’s not justified.. Ignore it. Ignore it, and assert that you’re not responsible for it

4) Indirect threats:

Manipulators knows the world condemn "bad" people/ behaviors And that, they prefer avoiding That’s why, sometimes they resort to a more "passive-aggressive" approach.

In short, they’ll use more subtle ways to threaten you.

Here, first thing is to expose their threats; Never let them hide behind a mask of humor/advice.. To do it, simply ask questions. For example: "What do u mean by that?" PS: They’re cowards. Exposing them is usually enough to scare them.

5) Contradiction and Discrediting:

Manipulators wants others to be dependant on them. It’s not a finding. But how do they do it? Simply by weakening your confidence.

Weakening your confidence by contradicting you and therefore discrediting you.

Here, it’s important that you stay confident. Know that your perceptions are valid. You can trust them. Also, you can ask evidence about their claims. Or even ask about the audience's POV. Then, dare to disagree. Don’t just agree with whatever they tell you

6) Blaming and shifting responsibility:

You may already know it.. But manipulators hate taking/ facing responsibility for their actions.

Confront them about something, and they’ll likely turn the blame on you.

Here, once you spot their projection; Stay realistic: Never accept any "unfounded" blame Then, focus on their actions, not the reasons for them. This way you challenge their narrative. (with facts)

7)Denial:

And like it wasn’t enough.. Projecting the blame isn’t the only way manipulators use to escape responsibility There’s another one: Denial. Yes, accuse them of something, and they’ll likely pretend it’s false

Worse? Insist and they’ll say you’re "crazy" for not trusting them.

Here, always trust your perception; Don’t let their "performances" blind you from reality. Don't get distracted by details Seek/Give proofs to support your accusations. Ofc, if they still have no intention to admit. Consider clear consequences.

Conclusion

Navigating relationships with manipulators and narcissists requires vigilance, self-confidence, and a commitment to factual evidence over emotional manipulation. These individuals employ a range of tactics—from rationalization and anger to guilt-tripping, indirect threats, contradiction, discrediting, blaming, and denial—to control and diminish others. Understanding these behaviors is the first step in safeguarding your emotional well-being. By remaining logical, questioning guilt, seeking evidence, and trusting your perceptions, you can protect yourself from their influence. Moreover, setting clear boundaries and consequences for their actions can force them to respect your space and dignity. Remember, your mental and emotional health should never be compromised by anyone's manipulative behavior.

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