Want to change from being a super nice guy to a cool bad boy? This plan is for you. It's not just about looking different. It's about acting and feeling more confident and strong. For the next 90 days, we'll show you how to be cool, mysterious, and not worry too much about what others think. This will help you feel better about yourself and make others see you in a new light. Let’s start this exciting change together!
1. Giving off a dangerous vibe.
Men having the ability to take care of themselves, but only when necessary. Women want to know a man can leap to defend them when and if "shit hits the fan.” Women like men who can stand up for themselves and aren't afraid to fight.2. Be a man.
You should have: • Your own time • Your own plans • Your own dreams and you should almost never compromise them to make someone else happy (romantic interest or not).3. Don't smile or nod while listening.
Nice guys always display a smile on their face while listening to women. Studies have found that men who smile often appear less attractive than those who don't simply because the less a man smiles the more intimidating he appears to be.4. Talk less.
Bad boys don't talk so much. They just know how to use the fewest possible words to explain themselves. When you talk less you become more mysterious, less boring and on top of that you appear less needy.5. Stop caring about everything.
For instance, in a situation where you're around women that you find attractive, while you won't necessarily want to act like a complete slob, you'll want to try to remain as relaxed as if you were at home watching TV.Doing this gives the signal to the people around you that you're:
• Cool
• Confident
and in control of your situation, which, for bad boys, can be downright sexy.
6. Dress and look like a bad boy.
If you walk around in: • 5-year-old T- shirt • Discolored jeans • Pair of basic sneakers • Jacket that's too big for you don't expect anyone or yourself to see you as remotely masculine.Here are the basics of the bad boy look:
• Jeans
• Accessories
• Simple T-Shirt
• Leather Jacket
• Leather Boots
7. Stop asking for permission or approval.
Be decisive (especially with women) and handle objections as they come. Don't look to others to determine if you're acting "right". Do what feels right for you. You might be surprised by what you've always had permission to do!8. Be independent.
Never "need" anyone else - other people are nice to have around, but not necessary for your happiness. Learn to enjoy yourself and your own company. You will realize that the less you need other people, the more other people will need you.Always create your own fun and entertainment.
Have a strong passion, and find hobbies and other interests that you would like to spend your time.
9. Cultivate irrational confidence.
F*ck the rules. Don't wait for reasons to feel safe. You'll never know for sure anyway. Nobody knows for sure! Instead, act like you know exactly what to do, know what's going to happen, and live with Irrational Confidence.10. Be strong physically, but more so emotionally.
As a man, you should be a pillar of strength that your family, friends, and especially women can rely on. Let go of the need to whine. Realize that no matter how much you complain or vent, your circumstances won't change.11. Make girls feel like they can save you.
She needs to feel that she (and no other girl) with her special magical, feminine powers can save/ tame you from doing reckless things: • G*ns • Partying • Speeding • Being impulsive and she can bring out the sweet guy in you.Conclusion:
Changing from a nice guy to a bad boy is really about being more confident and standing up for yourself. We've shared tips on how to do this in 90 days. It’s important to find a good mix of being kind and being strong. Keep working on being the best version of yourself, and remember, the most important thing is to be real and true to who you are. Keep going, believe in yourself, and enjoy the new you!